Forgiveness

Today we talked about forgiveness as we are making our way to the study of the Sacrament of Penance.  In the Parable of the Paralytic, Jesus looked into the man's soul and saw that he was sick with sin.  Because we are human, we also are spiritually sick and in need of forgiveness. Just as Jesus forgave the paralyzed man, he forgives us when we approach Him with a contrite heart.

At Ss. Peter & Paul, we are fortunate to have Father Ronny who, as an ordained priest, has been given the power to forgive sins. He has the personality, the theological training and the experience to be a valuable resource to our spiritual development. When we go to him in confession, he can help us to bring about personal changes, for the better, in our lives.

Ask yourself what is keeping you from going to confession more regularly? How do you really feel about this sacrament? What can be done so that you see it as a more valuable tool and as an incredible source of God's grace? What specifically can you do to encourage your child to understand the importance of asking for forgiveness, in the form of confession and/or in the conduct of everyday life?

Once you have given quality thought to this subject, sit down with your child to discuss what is on their mind and in their heart as they steadily approach the day of their first confession and Solemn Holy Communion. Building anticipation is critical to having a memorable event. Knowing that you share their excitement for these life events makes it more special.

Your child is at an age where s/he sees through innocent eyes and has a simple, clear understanding of the world. Use this quality time to look into the soul of your family life - ask what you are doing well and what needs to be done better. If an apology needs to be made, make it happen. Get into the habit of self audit and actively looking for opportunities to make your family life more authentic, loving, forgiving, and fun.